Dear Freshman Me: What I wish I had known

I remember it like it was yesterday. The nerves that come with meeting all new people, finding my way around a campus I was unfamiliar with, and living away from home for the first time. I had a mixture of emotions at the start of my freshman year. I was excited for the next four years, but also a little worried about what they would hold. I am sure most of you can relate with me on this one. I am not a huge fan of change.

However, I have found that some of the best things come from it. If I could go back in time, I would tell myself that God is in control. He is good, and His plans are good. I have been able to see God in so many parts of my college experience, and I know He will have His hands in yours too. There is no need to worry or be afraid, just sit back and enjoy the ride. Everything will fall into place and work out exactly how it is supposed to.

The second thing I would tell my freshman year self is get out of your comfort zone and get involved!!! This is SO important. I came to Jacksonville knowing two people, and had to basically meet all new friends. The idea of that can be a little overwhelming, but when you meet the right friends, you will realize it is more than worth it. So, if there is an opportunity to go to an interest meeting, a movie night, freshman convocation, or even maybe sorority recruitment, I encourage you to GO GO GO!!! These types of events are where you will meet the people that will make your college years worthwhile.

Going through recruitment was by far one of the best decisions I have ever made. I found a sisterhood that is full of the most genuine and special girls. They are the type of friends I prayed to find. They bring me so much joy and make everyday fun. They push me to be my best self and see potential in me when I can’t see it myself. They make me feel loved and supported. I truly could go on forever about how much of a blessing Phi Mu has been in my life. Finding community has played such a crucial part of my college experience. I encourage you to find yours!

The third piece of advice I would give my freshman year self is to be yourself. There is no one out there just like you, and that is what sets you apart. Do not worry about what others think, and just have fun!!! If you like to dance and sing, then go for it sister! College is the perfect time to be unapologetically yourself. The people around you will love you for it, I promise. God gave us all different gifts and talents for a reason, so embrace what makes you unique!!!

College is the start of a new season. When seasons change, it always takes a little time to adjust. Trust me, it took some time for me too, but you are going to be just fine! You will make the happiest of memories, have a lot of sleepless nights, and find the friends that will be at your wedding someday. There is SO much to look forward to in this chapter of your life. Something tells me it will be the best yet :)

- Sophie Hutchinson, PC '19